One thing to look at.
Have a shop with a modern charging system tester look at your alternator's output.
They will check it for maximum power under load and look at ripple in the DC output. If there is a lot of ripple and the peak power is down the alternator could have one bad rectifier diode. It will still keep the vehicle charged unless you sit at a red light with the defrogger, wipers and lights on.
The ripple will show up as whine in your radio and give you a nasty hangover.