seamonster,
One place you might take a look is at the ARRL web site. Another is the W5YI web site. (I'm sure there are others, I just don't know of any off hand.)
I would suggest getting a 'taste' of it first, maybe find a local club and catch a meeting or two. Sort of drop a hint about never having ever listened to real ham radio before. If you don't get at least one invitation in answer to that 'hint', something just "ain't right" somewhere
. That's also sort of a two headed coin! May turn you off the idea completely, or you may be 'addicted' immediately. There used to be several places on the internet where you could go and listen to the ham bands, tune around even. No idea if those places are still active (bet someone here might know).
Ham radio is also sort of a two ended stick. You can expect to do quite a bitof different things. You are also expected to do a couple of things too. Like learn some rules, little bit of electrical theory (mainly to keep from killing yourself), and some 'etiquette', as in you are usually treated like you treat others, that sort of thingy. Nothing 'new' about that, or unusual, you do that anytime you try something you've never done before.
There is a test. Several places to take 'practice' tests. Are those test difficult? Not really. Like anything you may not know much about, it takes a little time to understand the questions and make the right answer choice. But certainly not something the average person can't do given a little time (couple of weeks maybe?). There is a fee for the tests. Can't remember the exact amount, but it's not more than about $15, I think. A license lasts for 10 years, so less than $2 per year. I'd call that a bargain.
And then you will usually find out that this isn't exactly a 'cheap' hobby to play with. Doesn't have to be terribly expensive, but it certainly isn't 'free'. ("You want how much for a radio?"... which will almost always be cheaper than "You want how much for a bassboat?"
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Look around, get an idea about it and then decide for yourself. Have fun.
'Doc