have you tried a good noise cancelling mic?like rk56?
what i wound up doing was
put a resistor inline with the hot side of your ext speaker line,provided you use a external speaker.experiment with different values until you find what works best with said mic .
this will tame the talkback down,but in turn it also turns down listening volume .to overcome this you will now have to turn up your radio higher to hear it ,but talkback will remain the same as its volume is fixed.
thats the way i went .
something else you could look into is .
theres usually a wire coming off the echoboard board going to ground.try desoldering that wire .if talkback is now disabled then we got something to work with.
you can now solder in a resistor at the end of that wire and solder the resistor where the wire was,you can now control the talkback by resistor choice inside the radio.
let me know how you make out.