Help provide her own desk . Keep your hands off it. Her own tool box. Keep your hands off it. (In our case) Her own operating position. Keep your hands off it. If ever there is an argument and you find you are right, apologize at once. Money may be a powerful aphrodisiac but I've found doing the laundry, washing the dishes, cooking dinner, or flowers for no reason work better. The hardest thing we (men) do is say nothing. Practice this to an art form. You'll be surprised what you learn. Most women will argue with themselves and come to the correct conclusion without your help. If she ever admits to or apologizes for being wrong, accept your part in it . This is doubly true if you had no part in it. All women are 'redacted' crazy. It's just a question of distance and direction. Keep up if you can. Lastly, learn to love the woman and the differences . It is a process not usually learned immediately or completely .